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Abbey: So, it’s 2010

February 3rd, 2010, 5:17 pm by mmemrick

Dear Abby or Ann or Dan Savage, for 10 years I’ve been carrying around an unhealthy love-hate relationship with a place of higher learning in Belmont. Unhealthy I say. It’s one that’s been holding me back. What should I do?

I should be grateful for the memories and the friends I’ve made. At the same time, I should be thankful that, in some way, it helped me get the job that I currently have.

At the same time, I will always have a suspicious feeling about the way things are run over there. It’s just a journalistic approach, a way of thinking that I developed while attending school there for four years. It’s one thing to be quiet, but it’s  another to let arrogance and fundamental thinking run amok. EEOC decision or not.

Walking around school doesn’t feel the same nor should it. Going to sporting events shouldn’t feel the same either. When prospective parents would get in my face and ask me why I went to school in Belmont, I used to say, “It’s the best place to learn about how life really is.” I’d get a puzzled look, but inside I felt like it was the best answer to give.

I’ll leave it at that and develop this in my mind some more,

Sincerely,

New Outlook in Belmont, Hopefully

Baseball and steroids again

January 15th, 2010, 12:39 pm by mmemrick

I’m not mad at Mark McGwire, or former Gastonia Ranger Sammy Sosa, or Rafael Palmerio after their bouts with drugs.  I’m a little bothered by Jay Gibbons, the former Orioles outfielder, though.  Maybe 10 years ago, I read some article about how he was a model of healthiness. About how he attributed his muscle mass to lots of pasta and tofu. And then it

Former teammate Jack Clark comes out and says he’s sooooooo upset with Mark McGwire. At this point, it’s about about deflecting and putting blame elsewhere. If your employer (Major League Baseball) does not test for drugs, like they didn’t, and lets players do this, then I blame Baseball, Mr. Clark. I blame the Players Association AND the MLB executives for allowing an atmosphere of drugs.

Abbey: The Best and Worst of 2009 (Update)

December 15th, 2009, 3:06 pm by mmemrick

I found myself walking on campus last week. Just wandering. Maybe a couple of security cameras picked me up, but I started to think about all that’s happened in the last year. As the end of the year approaches, I thought it was time to reflect on the highlights and lowlights of the good ol’ BAC in the 2009 A.D. Here’s what I put together. E-mail me at mmemrick@gastongazette.com if you’ve got more to add or subtract.

1) Belmont Abbey College president threatens to close college over EEOC decision. This was the latest charge in the whole 3-year-old issue between the administration and a small group of professors over health care. So many things going on or are a result of tirade. The Becket Fund’s involved. The Catholic news sites are eating the college’s efforts up hook, line and sinker. Who’s gonna win? Until the professors or some kind of backing/effort comes along to challenge the mighty Becket Legal team folks. P.S. Somebody tell me how many more admissions we’re getting from this kind of pub. P.S. P.S. Somebody tell me when the abortion protesting is coming.

2) Graduation: Yeah, it happens every year, but think about how the economy is and how difficult it is for many students to put together four good years of book learning and walk away with an empty white cylinder. (For those of you that think it’s a diploma, you might want to take another semester of classes.)

3) Fr. John and Fr. Raymond die. The man, the myth, the legend. What a great man, awesome teacher and a faithful monk. Everyone has their Fr. John story. I loved many of Fr. Raymond’s sermons at the afternoon mass. Both men meant a great deal to the monastery and the school.

4) Abbey baseball makes it to the Division II World Series. Kudos to Kermit Smith’s team. Smith, now at Lander University, and the guys should be proud for years to come. I’m also happy for local product Michael Raymond recently got a spot with a pro baseball team.

5) Coach Susan Yow’s sister, Kay, passes away after her fight with cancer. Yow’s life and death brought so many people together. The way that Abbey students honored Yow and her family was real classy.

6) Money comes to Belmont Abbey. Granted, the Diocese of Charlotte was there to get the college’s back, but it’s money. About $512K is nothing to scoff at. And when the economy turns around, let’s talk about demolishing that  Poellath Hall and bringing some other stuff up to code. Maybe things will change with this story, too.

7) Curriculum changes….Yeah, I had to sneak that one in at the end of the year just like the school is. How do I weigh in on this? Well, I’m sure there’s no secret that the classes that have the least number of students are on the brink. Is English safe? Is Philosophy safe at a LIBERAL ARTS COLLEGE? Survey says…can’t wait to find out. Let’s hope the expansion doesn’t get hit, too.

8. Abbey men go from playing Time Warner Cable Arena to….the Dean Dome. I wonder who paid for the lights in that place. (it’s me, the state taxpayer.) Heard there was a great showing for students, alums and C of  C folks alike. Good for coach Miss getting everything to work out.

9) Abbey sports run amok. Well, not really. I’m dying to find out when women’s bowling is coming to school. Looking at the rosters of all the teams (without tennis and without a few athletes who play more than one sport) there’s about 188 men and 119 women competing. This is for a total of 307. Let’s bring in more.

10) Dick Dull resigns. Mr. Dull got the ball rolling on quite a few Abbey things. Sports Hall of Fame, etc.

Honorable mentions: American Association of University Professors forms with Abbey professors. Don’t tell the college. If they’re any that I don’t know about, please let me know. .. Coaching exodus starts with Terry. … Humpy Wheeler helps a Charlotte high schooler attend the school. Four Abbey alum in Hall of Fame.Abbey coach Chris Jones cleared of theft charges. … Abbey president says ‘Let’s stay Division II.” Caitlin Shaw races in NASCAR’s Truck Series.

Abbey: I’d rather see this on a billboard

November 29th, 2009, 11:19 pm by mmemrick

http://www.adailycartoon.com/page10/page10.html

Monks! Monks! Monks!

Abbey: Video making the rounds

November 19th, 2009, 6:05 pm by mmemrick

God Bless America. The fact that any person with a video camera can make people squirm or not.  I’m waiting for the next volley. Maybe the Beckett Fund’ll do something jazzier with more pops and whistles. If I get that one, I’ll post it here too.

It gives folks more insight into the heads of students and employees from the 3-year ordeal. Even if it was a little flimsy.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1zrJ9l4e5U

Abbey: BAC, aren’t you glad you’re not Fairfield University?

November 12th, 2009, 3:36 pm by mmemrick

What does Fairfield University and Belmont Abbey College have in common? They’re both two private Catholic schools in the eastern United States. Both have their controversies, but Fairfield’s caught up over a student columnist’s take on the ‘Walk of Shame.’ (By the way, I’m not talking about anything having to do with the stations of the cross.)

Parents, if you don’t know what that is or don’t remember, maybe you shouldn’t read this.

First, get some background here. It was a stupid, pointless column. What is it about Connecticut college students anyway (check here) and their penchant for testing people and stirring up stuff? Back to the column.  It was something that could’ve gone without being published. But, it’s protected by free speech. And now, a war is in full force. The university’s harrassment policy has been brought up and throws the whole idea of a student newspaper out of wack. Look at what the article says the policy could do:

“Under the Fairfield code, a student who writes a pro-life opinion piece that characterizes pro-choice supporters as “baby killers” could face charges if a reader claims the language is demeaning, Simon said. Under Pellegrino’s ruling, The Mirror could be sanctioned for allowing such student debate to take place, he added.”

What the heck. Fairfield has a communication history. At first glance (yeah, Wikipedia, oh well), it has several publications and a media building. A founding member of MSNBC, a WH correspondent, a newspaper publisher (Conn. Post)…all went there.

The university has this history and the students there are doing their best to get the newspaper taken away. What the heck.

It makes me think of the Abbey Crusader (don’t go to the Web site, it’s been broken for awhile.)

When I first worked with the Belmont Abbey College newspaper, it only had one-two issues my freshman year. Vividly, I remember asked a student admission recruiter on a phone call if the college had a newspaper back in 1995. She said, “Uh, we don’t have a newspaper.” Yes, they did (one issue that year), but the student interest wasn’t there. From that explanation by folks at the time, I think I developed a small paranoia that if the college didn’t have an embarrassing college newspaper to hand out, it was helping admissions, etc. It made me think of a former admissions counselor who told me that if gave Saturday morning tours through the dorms he would have to run his route an hour before so he could pick up all the beer cans, etc.

But, back to the point…

After three years, editors Christopher Iwancio and Clarence Courseault had it going great. We had some PR stories, we had some controversial stories and political cartoons, we had some layout skills, we had a great staff, we had opposing viewpoints, we had SHIRTS! We almost had a real college newspaper.  And, by saying that, I don’t mean to demean. I mean, we were effective and made an impact on our readers.

If you’re on a college newspaper staff, don’t shirk from controversy (even if your publication is free and paid by the college or university and you don’t want to get them angry), but at the same time, don’t be an idiot and get your free speech taken away. The administration will respect you if you don’t act like an idiot.

Abbey: Catholic school bans blogger from campus (Not me)

November 11th, 2009, 11:58 am by mmemrick

What if I was banned from Belmont Abbey College campus grounds for blogging? No more delicious coffee from Holy Grounds! Darn. I really don’t want to think about it, but look at the case of one blogging mother in Florida and her blog with news on a Catholic university.

Good ol’ Ave Maria University is in the news again and it’s not about Dominos pizza or the 250-foot crucifix (reportedly bigger than the Statue of Liberty) that it wanted to construct at one point. Dominos pizza chain founder Tom Monaghan helped start up the exclusive, super Catholic university in Florida if you’re not aware.

This is the first time I’ve heard of Marielena Montesino de Stuart, but if you claim your publication is being read by the pope, then I guess you’ve got some things going for you.

Check out the story here and her account here.

I came across this story in the Naples News via Poynter.org this morning. At first, her account seems overly hyped up and dramatic. But with any private school you’ve got to wonder about things.

Can it be interpreted that ‘anything critical’ of a college or university deems bannation? (the decision to ban).

In this case, the actions of the university are strange: de Stuart reported that the school is getting a large chunk of change from this man. She is also stating that Blase Golisano has ties to pro-abortion efforts . In my quick research, it seems Golisano has given money to other Catholic schools. She points out that Golisano’s ties and the Ave Maria University mission are in conflict.

I wonder what anyone Belmont Abbey College would say about this Ave Maria University situation. Hypothetically, (just like with the question of shutting down the school over the EEOC decision) I guess Belmont Abbey College wouldn’t take money from this man if it was true he was a pro-abortion kind of guy.

But then I haven’t gone through the public records on who has donated to the school.

Meet Elizabeth Lambert, soccer enforcer

November 6th, 2009, 4:22 pm by mmemrick

Check out the video

Scary movies in real life

October 27th, 2009, 10:47 pm by mmemrick

Why I, a 31-year-old man, thinks a horror movie from 1979 with is one of the scariest movies of all time, I don’t know. Phantasm was one of my first horror movies.

Maybe it was the time and the place. The soundtrack music. The late night watching as a kid. The fact that little metallic spheres could fly around on their own and kill people was a pretty scary. However, the young kids and their penchant for having sex in cemeteries… that’s a little weird to me. But all of it, combined, made for a creepy movie for me. Alice, Sweet Alice and The Shining also had the same effect on me.

But I think it was those movies that opening up my viewing habits, making it easier to watch more garbage or creative expression. You make your own assumptions.

But the last few years have been scary in both the movies and in real life.

The movie Saw came along a few years ago and has been made into six sequels while creating a new genre. Torture porn, I think they call it.

Now there’s a new morbid movie making the rounds and I don’t know what to think of it. The movie’s called Deadgirl. It involves zombies and men taking advantage of a helpless woman.

How it got made, I don’t know.  I’m starting to squirm in real life.

But it’s timing concurs with the brutal gang rape of a 15-year-old girl in Richmond, Calif. As the community comes to grips with the fact that many stood and watched instead of calling for help or the police, one has to wonder if we put ourselves in this position.

Are movies becoming real life or are they just taking real life and putting it into a movie format?

Abbey: Let the madness continue

October 23rd, 2009, 4:00 pm by mmemrick

I would like to meet Rabbi Yaakov Menken.

http://weblogs.baltimoresun.com/news/faith/2009/10/yaakov_menken_belmont_abbey.html

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